- Define what kind of woman you want to find. It can be challenging to choose a single date from a vast number of beautiful, cute, and wonderful girlfriends. You will see hundreds of profiles, and picking one can be difficult. But, you can use filters and searches if you know what you want to find. For instance, you may want to find a girlfriend from China, so a lot of potential dates won’t show up on your screen. Or you want to find a high girlfriend, so you can specify her height or any other characteristic.
- Be active. If you find a profile of a girl that you like, send her a message. Don’t wait for anything. If she is not into you, she will just say it. And you could move on to other girls.
- Learn about Asian culture and your date. Profile pages are your best tool. They contain a lot of useful information about your potential lady. Continue reading Tips to make your online dating experience unforgettable
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How should I deal with my husband’s very mild fondling of my daughters?
Dear Stop It Now!,
My husband sometimes touches our 3 and 6 year old daughters in ways that I find mildly inappropriate – e.g. pulling down the 3 year-old’s pants so we can see her bottom, or caressing her bottom when she just needs help pulling down her night-time diaper to use the toilet in the morning; or holding the 6 year-old across his lap in an armchair and stroking her leg from top to bottom (just on the outside).
So we’re not talking about anything obviously sexual, but nevertheless it makes me feel uncomfortable, and I feel I shouldn’t ignore my gut reaction, even when it seems like an overreaction. I’m not sure how (or whether) to talk about it to him, or what to say to my daughters to help protect them.
Dear Concerned Mom,
Whenever an adult has any concern – whether it’s a gut feeling, an observation or other experience – with another adult’s behaviors with children, it is always wise to talk about it. It’s 
never an overreaction to worry about a child’s safety – even when it concerns loved one’s behaviors. Yes, perhaps your husband is just a dad who loves his children a whole bunch and uses touch to demonstrate his affection, but if his behaviors raise questions for you, now is a good time to address safety in your home. Continue reading How should I deal with my husband’s very mild fondling of my daughters?